Goldilocks-'Humptydumptyluv'

Lust, attraction, infatuation. These are less than love. After living in denial of what I ACTUALLY feel, here are some lessons I have learnt in silence.

• Love is a good thing. It should lift you to become a better person. Anything less is not love. Love should feel good. It should not make you feel bad or rather guilty for being real about your feelings. It should make you want to become a better person. LOVE MUST MAKE YOU HAPPY EVERYDAY. It keeps you energetic, enthusiastic and motivated to live each day!

• If it's love, you spend a good healthy balance time together. If it's infatuation, you spend every minute with them.

• When you don't talk, there will be a lot of stuffs ending up not getting said. Thus, they will never know how you feel and you will never know how they feel. A bridge of unspoken words there. ;)

• No lies no secrets. It is always better to speak out. Both would feel better. 

• You can't kill feeling. It either fades with time or remains forever.
• Similarly, you should not try to cut down on communication with the one you know you can't stay a day without talking to. All that I would say is, make use of it. In a positive way of course. Spend time studying together. It does no harm, right ? 

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”                               

Yet, I have confusions in return too. Till tell you more in the next post, toodles ! xx