Lost.

What do I say ? Urmm, these days have been really hard for me. I have been having issues going on lately, in my life. I have no say, totally. It was once upon a time when I felt really blessed. I can see things falling appart. I wish it only gets better, but neah! I don't know what I want. Thus, I don't know where I am heading to. Completely clueless, not knowing what comes first in life. I have all desires, a lot of dreams, not to mention my beloveds' hopes and expectations on me. I have disappointed them once. They were really hurt. I was and I am too. But what do I do next ? It feels like a girl standing all by herself in a stranded land under the rain without people around, with no paths to follow, if only you know what's she going through inside. I have nice people around me. Yet, there's something that I don't get enough from them. Don't ask me what is that, it is just that. Confusion in mind and sorrow at heart. The motivation, enthusiasm, willingness to do anything to achieve my goals, self-esteem, confidence are no longer there in me. I truly miss the old me! That pretty obedient daughter whom my mom's always been proud of, that daddy's eldest daughter who only knew winning!

I have no clue what is going on with my life! I do not know what is wrong with me and yeah with my life too. Frustrating enough! What else do I have to complain ? I'm His perfect creation, the fortunate one for I'm gifted with perfect family and decent life yet as you are aware, I am complaining. I can't believe I am complaining. What is there to complain when life has been fair enough to me ? There are unfortunate people out there with greater obstacles in their lives, yet they are not complaining, they are succeeding instead. But what is happening to me ? Where are the optimism, motivation, spirit, enthusiasm and courage I once had ? and Oh ya, I have not been seeking Him lately. Perhaps that is why I don't feel blessed anymore for the God is hardly in the center of my attention now. Pretty much messed up inside, not knowing what I am trying to fit into! I only hope by the time I buck up, it's not too late to make things better. Oh Lord, hear me out please. :(

Youdontknowyouareinlove.

When you realise you are falling for someone 

Why do you try to avoid her ? Why do you put yourself in limits and too afraid to put your toes outta line ? 

Why do you try really hard to avoid meeting her eyes ? Why will you be too careful in arranging words when you are talking a word or two to her ? Why does the heart skip beats when you meet her ? 

Why do you feel like your heartstrings tug a little bit more when you see her getting close to another boy ?

Why is that ? 

You don't know. You are in love. 


Love is 

• the urge to know everything and every single thing about her. 
• to understand her completely.
• to wish to always be there for her when she is down.
• to feel a red-hot poker of jealousy stabbing you when she talks to another guy.
• to realise that you can't spend a day without her.
• to shed a tear when she is not around because that is how much you miss her.
• to love her more when she is absent.
• to love yourself more because you know she loves you, your handsome self. 
• to feel like the luckiest guy to be loved by her.
• to feel like you are the best guy because she has chosen you out of all the zillion guys in the world.
• to lose interest in talking to other girls no matter how pretty they can be because she is the only one that you want to talk to.
• to make no response to the other girls' flirtations
• to find all girls just the same and ordinary because she is your only apple of eye. 
• to feel like she is the most perfect female specimen to have set foot on the planet because she is yours.
• to wish you had all the earthly time just to talk to her.
• to find her really cute in a guys-just-want-to-protect-her kind of way when she is by herself.
• to be more sensitive to her sarcasm and to sulk hoping that she would persuade you. 
• to expect more attention from her.
• to wish to just hug her when she cries and shivers because she is all yours.
• to wish to protect her and treat her just like how her dad possibly does.
• to wish she would take care of you too, just like how your mom does. 
• to dream your whole future with her. 
• to catch yourself smiling thinking of her.
• to have her as the last thing on your mind and you'd be clicked off your lamp every night and she is your first thought when you open your eyes.
• to be proud to call her, your girl infront of your friends and the other girls. 
• to feel like you would move heaven and earth just to spend your life with her.

No doubt, no delay.  

You are madly in love with her.

She is your soulmate.

:)